I'm a big guy. Generally don't do selfies for this reason exactly. It's not from one or a small group of individuals, either. I get this as a first reaction from a dozen sources a day, even strangers. I can't smile anymore.
Usually I crack a joke but today is R U OK Day. So check in with those around you. Ask R U OK. And if you are struggling (especially is these crazy times) ask for help! ❤️ [f]