The waves on the shore feels so good in that position and I honestly don't care if it could be a sexual thing. There, I admit it. Textile beachgoers are doing it too, anyway.
Do you prefer to defer, or do you want the ball[s] now? I like being in charge, but you could be the "head" coach and make sure we each get in plenty of practice – I think two-a-days would be the bare (M)inimum