Make it hurt, grab it by the hair and shove its face it in the toilet while you fuck its ass dry. Make it beg to stop with every painful thrust. Make it wish it never disobeyed you again. And in the end, make it beg for more.
Took my wife shopping to buy her a see-thru top to wear to a party - see came out of the changing room to show me (and everyone else in the shop) what she'd chosen. I whipped out my credit card!